How to use California BDSM Contacts
Step 1 - Create a Profile
Using the joining box above, tell the system if you are a couple, a single lady or a single man.
Then tell us who you are looking for.
Then your date of birth.
Then your email address
The system will send you a confirmation email with a code in it, so that you can complete te sign up.
Once you have entered your code you can complete the profile with more details about you, your likes and what kind of people you are looking for.
Please note: We do not allow adverts from Prostitutes or Escorts. Our sites are all about having fun, not paying for sex.
Step 2 - Finding friends
Click the search icon, then fill in the search criteria of the people you are looking for.
You will only find kinksters on our site - No Escorts or Prostitutes. (If you find someone asking for money please let us know and we will delete their profile)
If you find someone you like the look of, and VERY IMPORTANT, someone who is looking for people like you, send them a message.
If the person likes your message they will reply.
Step 3 - Messages / Communications
This is the way the message system works
- You write a user a message, if they are a VIP member, they can read the message and reply to you.
- If they are a standard member, they cannot read your message, they must upgrade to VIP to read the message.
- If you are a VIP member, everyone can read and reply to your messages.