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About California BDSM

California BDSM is the leading Lifestyle contact site for kinksters looking for new playmates in California.

We have been connecting Lifestyle Kinksters since 2003 and have a database of over 5.5 million kinksters with new members joining at the rate of 49,000 a day.

You can search for Masters, Mistresses and submissives in your local area or in the whole state.

California BDSM

California BDSM is the leading source of Kinky Contact Ads. in California.

We have thousands of Kinky members all over California, plus another 5 million members around the world.

We work hard to prevent and eliminate fakes profiles from the site, but some will always get through. If you find a fake profile just send the profile name or number to the helpdesk, or hit the report profile button inside the app and we will check the profile and if we agree it is fake we will remove it.

To maintain your privacy, we have a closed internal mail system. Your incoming messages can only be read by you after you log in. You can have a notification sent to your emails if you want to know when you receive a message.

To stop people creating profiles using other peoples details, we use email verification to make sure that people are not sent messages they do not want.


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